MLK Day
Monday, January 21st, 2008By Tom Bedell
I’ve been less than enthusiastic about this day arriving–my sixtieth birthday. Now that it’s here, in conjunction with the celebration of Martin Luther King Jr.’s birthday, I guess I can deal with it. I’m happy he was alive, and I’m happy I’m still here to be happy.
I’m also pleased to have a sense of just how far this country has come since King’s turbulent days leading the civil rights movement. The best current symbol of this is Barack Obama. No matter one’s political persuasion, the simple fact that Obama is running for (and may become) the President of the United States is a persuasive argument that our country is not as backwards as it sometimes appears to be.
In terms of racial balance or justice, golf has been plenty backward, dragged into reality much later than other spectator or participatory sports. Tiger Woods is the best prevailing symbol here that race is almost a non-issue. I say almost because a recent incident involving Tiger showed that it will take another generation or two before the present outweighs the past.
The moment came during a Golf Channel telecast of the second round of the Mercedes-Benz Championship. Analysts Nick Faldo and Kelly Tilghman were bantering about what young players would have to do to become competitive with Woods, when Tilghman said they’d probably have to, “Lynch him in a back alley.”
It was a poor choice of words. But what seems clear in retrospect is that it was said jokingly, with no ill intent, and probably would have been a complete non-issue if she had said the players would probably have to, “Break his kneecaps.”
Tilghman, friendly with Woods, called him to apologize, and he accepted her apology. Tiger’s agent issued a statement that that was that, the whole incident was a complete non-issue and he considered the case closed.
It should have been. But it wasn’t. Tilghman issued an on-air apology in round four of the tournament, and a few days later the Rev. Al Sharpton weighed in with a call for Tilghman’s firing on a CNN news show (while referring to her as “him”). The Golf Channel suspended Tilghman for two weeks. One might have hoped that that would have been that.
But it wasn’t. Golfweek ran a Jan. 19 cover story about the incident that revisited all the particulars, and in a particularly bone-headed decision ran a cover photo of a noose swinging in the breeze. The reaction to the cover was swift in its unanimous repugnance, and Golfweek’s management was equally swift in issuing an apology and firing vice president and editor Dave Seanor, who bore the responsibility for the cover.
His firing came in the midst of the PGA Merchandise Show in Orlando, the mammoth annual trade show meant to launch the new year with a heavy jolt of optimism. Neither the Golfweek cover nor the Seanor firing fit well into the script. I ran into Seanor down at the Show, but although I don’t know him well, I know him to be a respected editor and a decent fellow. One can only hope that his misfortune is truly the end of the whole sorry mess. But I’m beginning to doubt it.
I prefer to remember an incident from seven years ago, when I was playing with a group of mostly northern golf writers at the Quail Hollow Golf Course, a pleasing Arthur Hills track within the Percy Quinn State Park in McComb, Mississippi. In the fiery days of the civil rights movement, Mississippi was the crucible of intolerance. But on this quiet day, five of us had bunched up, but eventually three players (white) caught up to us, so we naturally let them play through.
Soon a single player (black) also caught up to our group, and we sent him on ahead as well. And then we pondered what kind of reception he might receive. A hole or two later we saw all four men playing together like countless contented foursomes. It was an unremarkable moment, but we all remarked on it, since it spoke volumes about the struggles gone through to reach such a moment. And then we moved on.
Moving on is what we do, in golf, in life, in the struggle to find balance, peace and justice. And that should keep the fires of enthusiasm burning.


